About
For when we're feeling a little “spiky” or closed off in the heart - perhaps when there’s some lingering tension after a breakup or recurring family dynamics.
This blend helps to soften the emotional edges, opens the heart, helps us feel less reactive or critical and can make us more approachable again.
A really beautiful remedy when preparing for a new relationship, or when things have felt out of sync with your current partner or family members.
It can be helpful during festive seasons when emotions around others can run high.
Ingredients
Created with English flower essences, pure spring water and your choice of organic brandy or glycerine.
Aqua (Spring Water), Alcohol (Brandy*) or Glycerine*, Flower Essences of Cichorium intybus (Chicory), Fagus sylvatica (Beech), Calluna vulgaris (Heather), Ilex aquifolium (Holly).
*Organic / Biodynamic ingredients
*Organic ingredients
Flowers Explained
Flowers Explained
Chicory: For the heart that longs to feel seen and loved, Chicory softens attachment and quietens the need to hold on tightly. It encourages love that flows freely - given without expectation and received without fear.
Holly: When jealousy, resentment or guardedness close the heart, Holly gently restores openness. It soothes emotional intensity and rekindles compassion, helping love move more freely within us.
Heather: For times when we feel unheard or alone, Heather supports deeper listening and mutual exchange. It shifts the focus from seeking validation to sharing connection, nurturing true reciprocity.
Beech: When irritation or judgement create distance between ourselves and others. Beech brings tolerance and understanding. It softens criticism and invites greater empathy, allowing space for human imperfection.
Together, these essences gently open the heart, soften emotional defensiveness and encourage balanced, mutual connection - helping us feel more at ease within ourselves and more connected to those around us.
How to Use
Take 4 drops, 4 times a day, placed directly under the tongue or added to water.
Consistency is key - gentle shifts build gradually over time.
When to Use
Connected is a gentle daily blend when we feel emotionally prickly, guarded, or disconnected - from ourself or from others.
Use it when feeling:
- More reactive or easily irritated
- Like withdrawing instead of opening up
- Overly self-protective after emotional hurt
- Critical
- Lonely but finding it hard to connect
- “Spiky” (such as in late luteal phase)
- Like old wounds, past heartbreak, or unresolved resentment are resurfacing
- Ready to open your heart again after a breakup
It’s especially helpful around the festive season, after emotional upheaval, or when we’re intentionally rebuilding connection, intimacy and trust.
What You May Notice
As the blend works gradually (4 drops, 4 times daily), people often describe:
- Feeling calmer and less reactive
- Softer emotional edges
- Being more open to affection, closeness and support
- Increased compassion toward self and others
- Old emotional tension beginning to melt
- Greater tolerance with others
- Feeling more approachable
- More warmth in relationships
- A little more softness each day
Changes with flower remedies can be subtle but steady.
Who's it For?
Supportive for those of us who are:
• Tending to put emotional walls up
• Feeling sensitive or easily triggered
• Longing for closeness but find it hard to soften
• We can be overly protective of loved ones
• Noticing jealousy, resentment or guarding behaviour
• Wanting to rebuild trust in relationships
• Are healing from a breakup or heartbreak
• Feeling irritable or emotionally tight in your luteal phase
• Craving deeper connection - with ourrself or others
This blend gently helps us re-open, soften defensiveness and reconnect from the heart.
FAQ's
- How often should I take it?
4 drops, 4 times a day, but this is the minimum dosage. You can also take additional drops if you notice any moments you want to be brought back to centre.
- Can I take it before bed?
Absolutely. Many people find it helps their mind unwind and prepares the nervous system for rest.
- Can I combine it with other flower remedies?
It’s best taken on its own as your main daily remedy (the only exception would be SOS Formula, which you can take alongside any other remedy whenever it's needed).
- Is it safe to take with medications or herbs?
Yes. Flower essences are energetic preparations with no plant material, so they do not interact with medications or herbs.
- Brandy or glycerine?
Both are equally effective. Brandy is the traditional base; glycerine is alcohol-free and slightly sweeter option.
Glycerine is most popular with pregnant women, children and those who would prefer to limit all alcohol from their lives.
Shipping
Free shipping on all UK orders and free international shipping on orders over £75.
Every parcel is sent via tracked delivery for peace of mind.
All outer packaging materials are fully recyclable and thoughtfully chosen to minimise environmental impact.
